Let him grow the hell up

Please stop getting mad when I say I don’t need your help.

Your son helped make the little blessing we have and he needs to help me.

I need you to just back off.

I spent weeks nagging him to help me with the baby. Then as I gained more patience so him and I can walk out this parenthood things began to change at home.

Everything was going just fine since we don’t visit you as much now. He’s finally doing his part without me having to yell like I use to. Sometimes there are a few frustrating moments, but he’s getting it.

Mommy dearest doesn’t need to jump to the rescue cause then it’s undone. We have to start over from square one and it’s frustrating.

Please let your son grow the fuck up. I shouldn’t have to teach him the things that should’ve been taught.

He doesn’t need you to baby him. He left the nest now let him be a grown ass man. Let him take care of his family.

To clarify;

I had to nag him about how important hygiene is which has gotten so much better.

He does his duty as a dad and is more involved with our son.

While I was in recovery his mom got in the way of him helping me out so when we got back to our place he was barley helping me out with our son. Night after night I was crying at my wits end contemplating on leaving him. I then practiced patience and things were slowly getting better.

It was a struggle to get him to see that no one has a say in where we live (his mom threw a fit when I said I wanted to move out of state)or how we raise our son.

I hope I don’t sound like a bitch.