Would you be pissed off about this too?

I know marriage is 50/50

You both have to give and lose

And compromise

I get that

But ever since this pandemic started my husband stayed home 3 months and got unemployment, ever single money he got from there he gave to tickets and violations or spent on his car , whatever that’s fine but then I got unemployment and he started going to work late or not going at all, and used all my unemployment to give rent , bills , and spend on his car.

I had some cash saved up and I really wanted to buy new sofas for our house and it’s been 3 months since I ordered them they didn’t come so I got the money back thru my bank because the store wasn’t listening to me that I don’t want their product anymore ( they kept telling me a new date everytime I called) so now he sees I have some money and he said I need that for new tires .. I Saved that money to get us a better sofa set (ours is ripped) and you wanna take that too and spend it on your car? I just have him $1000 for a lawyer last week which I had to borrow from my mom.

It’s been 5 years and this guy has done nothing but ruined everything

He has court orders coming from every angle for debt cos he never pays his credit cards

He never pays $5 tolls which turn into $100 and reached Up to $20000 he owed in debt to the department of transportation.

I’m going crazy

How can a man be so fucking careless and irresponsible, and it’s not like he doesn’t know he knows and he keeps repeating the same mistakes thinking no one can do shit to him

Thinking he won’t get arrested

I’m just so mad coz the little money I had left he wants that too SO WTF IS HE MAKING? WHY DOES HE WORK? Where does that fucking money go? This guy don’t even pay rent and when he does it’s half that’s why we owe months of rent too.

Fml .