Is it normal to feel gross when my bf does this?

I’ve been with my bf for about 3 yrs. I really thought he was a genuine sweet and nice guy. Then, the longer we dated I started to feel uncomfortable and not attracted to him when he would say certain things. To this day I don’t support men/women who objectify and dehumanize others. I grew up constantly sexually harassed by other boys, so I am still sensitive about that issue. It’s really difficult for me to trust a man and open up to him sexually. Until I met my bf, but the longer we stayed together, the more he says some childish immature things about women only. He’ll say an actress isn’t good enough in a film, due to her level of attractiveness. He sexualizes female animated characters in video games. He’ll point out when women aren’t wearing a bra, as if it’s a big deal. It’s so many small random things that occur, and it really makes me cringe, but then I think it’s not worth my time of day to talk about. But it makes me take a step back, and really ask myself if I want to stay with a 26yr old who acts like this. I know I can’t change him, and everything else about him is perfectly fine. Are there really any normal guys out there who don’t see women as mere objects? Whenever he tries having sex after he does stuff like that, it’s a huge turn off, and makes me feel like he is only sexually attracted to me or something. Is this normal? Idk if I’m just overreacting and all guys are the same. Like maybe I just feel this way bc of my past issues...?

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