Would you be upset as well? Am I wrong? How would you handle this?

If you have some time PLEASE READ THIS and help me!!!! I need to know if I’m wrong or not and how to handle this...I literally cannot go on living like this.

So my boyfriend and I had planned to go to see my mom today (our sons birthday was a couple days ago). She made some food. But then yesterday he said “honestly I need to work tomorrow - I got to line up some jobs” he’s starting up his own company.

So I just said okay, because I know we need the money right now. Well today after I left I messaged him asking how work was he said that 2 of the jobs got cancelled and one of them was moved to tomorrow. I thought that was too coincidental but whatever. I asked him if he could please clean the house for me since he was going to be home all day alone. He said “lol we’ll see.” I have so much laundry to fold and some cleaning to do around the house. I’ve been so overwhelmed lately. I was a little annoyed because he was taking a long time to respond back to me but I didn’t say anything and then that annoyed me as well.

I came home to kill laying on the couch. The kitchen the same way it was except even more dishes in the sink. The house literally looked the same as if he was sitting on the couch all day. His play station was on. I haven’t spoken to him at all. I just came home gave my son some dinner and put him to bed. We haven’t talked. I cleaned the kitchen and I went upstairs to fold the million loads of laundry I have...which I told him really hurts my back right now while I’m pregnant and he can’t even help me with it - which he told me he would yesterday during our sons nap - yup, never happened. Instead he “needed a break” he can’t even give me a massage to help me. And now he’s downstairs playing video games...AFTER DOING NOTHING ALL DAY.

I’m so frustrated with living like this. I’m so stressed and tired and sore. To top it all off he loves to raise his voice/yell at me and swear and everything.

I’m currently 6 months pregnant and now have a 2 year old so I’m super exhausted all the time. I need help! He hardly ever helps me. We literally JUST got over a HUGE fruit fly problem in our house - im talking full on infestation literally because he never takes out the garbage. Basically The one job he has in the house.

For the past couple days he’s once again left garbage bags on the grown. Food in the sink. The counter a mess. It’s frustrating because I don’t want to clean up all the time and I really don’t want another fly problem that was stressful as hell. We still have a few flies lingering around and I told him if he leaves food out we’re going to wake up to the exact same problem again but he just doesn’t seem to care.

I feel like we don’t spend quality time together and I literally told him that for the 10th time yesterday. Then yesterday evening came around and he was smoking outside for 3 hours when he told me he would be a half an hour. I asked him if he could please come inside and watch a show with me and he said he would be in in 10 minutes, but ended up coming in an hour and a half later. I was so hurt.

Now he’s doing this today...idk am I wrong? How would you handle this honestly?

*update; I have been walking up and down the stairs carrying heavy laundry baskets full of clothes to fold WHILE PREGNANT and he is just not even acknowledging me. He’s either on his phone or playing video games. IM SO ANGRY I LITERALLY WANT TO TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO LEAVE. Wtf is this!!!!!