Needing to vent

So my husband usually puts my daughter to bed bd has gotten her in a routine. Few times I’ve tried and she screamed until he took over... well tonight he decided to play the games with his boys online and forced me to put her down for bed... she screamed bloody murder until I gave her to him... I tried everything and he felt the game was more important and kept telling me to try shit that I tried already saying “we have one more match left” so I said never mind and walked back upstairs... she proceeded to start crying again. So he comes takes her from me and goes back downstairs... haven’t heard her cry once... all I could do was cry. I feel like a terrible mother... and all he does is rub it in my face how she prefers him over me... it’s bad enough I recently went back to work after being on maternity leave... he has been the one to stay with her and my mom...I work in health clinic so I make sure I shower first before holding her... not to mention I rarely watch tv but when I do he takes the tv over to play the game with his friends online. Tbh I just feel like getting stuff off my chest... most of you probably won’t read it and that’s ok... I’m just mentally breaking and no one seems to understand...