Mother in Law...

So my mother in Law demands that we tell her first when we find out we are expecting. And she says “Cause I’m grandma and I deserve to know right away”. Like uhhhmmm.

I think it should be when him and I are ready. Thoughts?

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She’s known to tell others information that isn’t wanted to be told. And I’ve told her don’t tell anyone especially someone in part and what does she do? Yeah you guessed it goes and tells that person. Then she goes and says “oh well she’s not gonna say anything”🙄 yeah just like you weren’t supposed to lolol