Need to rant about boyfriends ex 😤🙄
I’m sure I’ll get hate for this, but I just need to talk about it somewhere.
So she has 3 kids (1 with my boyfriend) that the state has taken away. She has a 5 year old (my boyfriends daughter), a 3 year old, and a 1 year old. My boyfriend got into drugs shortly after his daughter was born and he made the adult decision to hand over temporary guardianship to his daughters grandparents. He’s now clean and working hard to get the where he needs to be to have her back. It’s a long road, but he’s getting there.
His ex however had all 3 of the babies taken away due to neglect. The grandparents have the older 2 and her sister has the 1 year old baby.
Her and her new bf are always trying to get at my boyfriend just to start drama because they have nothing better to do. They have had people jump my boyfriend and beat the shit out of him twice now and they threaten to kill him all the time and stuff. We’ve tried to contact the police and they won’t do anything until something happens that we can prove was them.
This woman had the audacity to call him using an old friend’s Facebook account today and ask him to stand on the witness stand at her trial and lie to the judge that her and her boyfriend didn’t neglect the youngest child. My boyfriend lived with a mutual friend that they also lived with for a week. That poor little baby cried and screamed for hours and they would just leave him there to scream while they went to the backroom to fuck or sleep. The mutual friend and my boyfriend were the ones that cared for the sweet baby. This woman even offered to her mom that she’d sign over the 5 year old if they gave her the 3 year old back. Her own mom and dad are the ones that told me this.
They are trying to get the baby back, but neither of them have a job, a car, a drivers license, a place to live, or anything to take care of the baby, but are still trying to get him back.
I just don’t see why! If you can’t care for a baby why would you want to make it suffer when it’s being cared for and loved now with your sister?! If you want him back then step up and make the change! Get a job! Get your license, show them that you’re trying to change instead of wanting the world handed to you an a plate.
It just frustrates me. Those sweet kids deserve to be happy, healthy, loved, and properly cared for!
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