Pregnant sick and husband issue

Ok so this pregnancy has been a crazy time. 14 weeks and been miserable. Had horrible morning sickness lasting all day, constipation, hemorrhoids, 3 yeast infections, and now currently been sick for 16 days.

My obgyn insisted I go into the ER today after hearing me on the phone coughing. I am just run down. I don't have pneumonia or COVID (thank God) was really dehydrated and needed an IV. Told to rest.

Here is my problem, my husband isn't doing well with me sick. He works and comes home and is exhausted. This morning I had tried 3 times to wake him so I could go to the ER so he could take care of our 16 month old. Everyone keeps telling me to rest but my husband is not understanding of it.

This evening we had a big blow up fight and I don't even want to look at him. Told him don't speak to me tomorrow. I think he is being so selfish. I am a stay at home mom and doing my best.

This evening he woke me up and dropped our 16 month old on me. Then locked himself in the spare room. I had to feed our son dinner and do the bedtime routine by myself.

I am so sick I am tempted to leave and get a hotel room just to get rest and heal.

What do you do when you are pregnant and so sick and everyone keeps telling you to rest but your husband. Help I really love this guy but I am so resentful right now.