Arguments

My boyfriend is always extreme when we argue and he can never be wrong. Today before dropping him off at work I asked if he could put the fire alarm back up that he took down because we have people coming to check our washer and last time they said something about it being down and I could get fined. And he said his shoulder hurt so he couldn’t put it up. His neck hurt because he slept wrong but whenever he’s in a bad mood and something is hurting he really milks it. And if I say something like I can’t put it up and I’ll be the one to get fined he’ll say “well then you put it up” . I got pretty irritated and showed him on google how cigarette smoke can set a fire alarm off and that’s why he even took it down to begin with and he says that’s bullshit no it can’t. And I told him you’re just not ever open to being wrong, I’m trying to show you what it says right here it’s not just me bitching . And he gets all mad yelling “leave me alone” and going off and any time I try to respond to what he’s says he’s like “leave me alone yo.”

I’ve told him multiple times when we talk it out that I hate how we communicate when we argue because he takes it to another level and I want to work on it but we always end up back here. It’s draining. I feel like I’m constantly having to accommodate to how he’s feeling but I’m not ever allowed to feel a way.

Now he’ll go the whole day without talking to me or calling me saying “I just think it’s fucked up how” and regardless I’ll have to be the one to try to break the tension or it will just stay there.

He needs to talk to someone about his anger but he never does he just gets high and plays games all night.

I love him and I want it to work but it’s time like these where it’s so draining I just feel myself dissociating. I don’t have any friends or family out here.