Did I do something wrong?
So my boyfriend plays baseball for a team for fun. It’s just something him his and friend do and they haven’t been able to play all summer due to Covid.
I took our 5 month old daughter to one of his games because it was really nice weather. and I laid a blanket down in the shade. I was away from everyone, but close enough to hear what was going on and being said.
I know a girl there who has been trying to get pregnant for quite some time only because she posts it on her social media.
Well I guess bringing my daughter to the game was extremely offensive to her. She sobbed about how she and her husband have been trying for years, and no luck. She also brought up how she has experienced a miscarriage, and me bringing my daughter to watch a game knowing she’d be there (which honestly I had no idea who’d be there) was to just rub it in her face.
It was embarrassing and made me feel as if I should leave.. My boyfriend told me to not worry about it, and that she is being rude to make me feel this way.
I was just minding my own business.. I’m shy to begin with so I didn’t say anything to her when we got there. This was all out of just her seeing me with my daughter.
I understand her hurt in her heart only because I experienced 2 miscarriages before my daughter. but I just felt extremely awkward because she was sobbing loud and talking about it aloud where people were turning their heads.
I just don’t understand how she can take her anger out on me... When I had my miscarriages I didn’t take my anger out on a innocent family or a pregnant women. Yes it was hard to see but I didn’t wish the worse for anyone. Or make them think they shouldn’t be somewhere for me to feel better..
I don’t know maybe i’m over thinking this all... i’m not sure. Part of me just had to vent I guess..
Also due to Covid we haven’t taken my daughter to much honestly. So it was extremely nice to get out of the house and enjoy the sunshine.
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