Is it cheating?

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I’m married, but every couple months or so I re-download tinder. I’m not looking for anyone new & never actually looked through any profiles, I just go to read my old messages. All of them were prior to my relationship with my husband, but for some reason I love reminiscing about the guys I’ve met on there. It always puts me in a good place. Would you consider this cheating?

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I believe that’s very odd, not cheating just very weird to me

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If my husband downloaded a dating app I’d consider it cheating personally. Even if he said he wasn’t talking to anyone, I wouldn’t believe it since there is absolutely no reason to have a dating app when married.

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You shouldn’t have to seek past affirmations when you have a husband. There’s a deeper issue here.

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No , but if I saw that in my partners phone I wouldn’t even bother to find out if they are actually cheating or not . I would be gone . 🤷🏻‍♀️

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It's not cheating. But you should do some self reflection on why you're feeling the need to do that so often. I don't think that's normal or healthy for your relationship.

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Sounds like you’re not satisfied if you need to look back on old conversations with hookups to put you in a good place. What would you think if he was doing this?

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It’s not cheating but I would not be okay if my husband wanted to go back and read his messages with past partners and/or hookups every few months. I would discuss why the need or enjoyment of reminiscing on those conversations.

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It’s sus as fuck

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It’s not cheating per say, but it’s definitely flirting with the line.

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It’s not cheating per say but it’s not healthy and I wouldn’t call it normal while in a loving relationship. I’m sure your husband wouldn’t like it and neither would you.

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