Sick of my husband.....

I don’t talk to my friends and family about my marriage so I’m coming here to get it out of my system... I’m seriously so over my husband... I find myself thinking about divorce daily. I am a SAHM and he thinks all he has to do is bring home a pay check and that should be enough. I am okay with a 1950s marriage (for the most part) as I take care of the house he works but when he can’t even tend to his kid while I shower or even take a shit that just really pisses me off. He sees me getting aggravated and does he offer to take baby so I can have a few mins? No.. and to think he tried to talk me out of getting my tubes tied... I have tried talking to him and it seems as if it literally goes in one ear out the other. I am so overwhelmed with keeping the house in order (I get major anxiety if my house is a mess) keeping up with laundry tending to baby learning to balance my time between my kids and then worrying about dinner and all. I know people do it all the time but ugh! Can’t he at least come up with dinner a couple nights a week or even wash the dishes once in awhile. It makes me feel so disrespected or unloved really because he knows how I am. He knows what makes me mad he knows I can’t stand a messy house. He knows all of this but yet he puts in no effort whatsoever to help me out.... just needed to vent somewhere I guess.