Maybe my hormones are just still all over the place

Why is it that men are incapable of running to the store quickly. Or that it is such a hassle for them to help out with the bay. Maybe I just have a boy and not a man but god single mom life over here with a husband 🤣I feel guilty if I’m not doing it all because he seems so bothered and overwhelmed. He was able to take time off to help with the baby and he is sleeping in everyday until 12:30-2 must be nice. Very frustrating