My husband and I are not in a good place, advice?

Emotionally we are both exhausted from having two miscarriages back to back. Everyday we are stuck in a routine and at night we hardly talk. We haven’t had sex in weeks cause of everything that’s been going on so I feel complete distance. He snores so bad even ear plugs don’t help so I sleep on the couch 3 out of the 5 work week days, so as you can imagine we don’t sleep next to each other often. Last night he tells me we don’t talk or I don’t tell him how I’m feeling. I do to a certain extent, but if I do he doesn’t say anything back it’s like talking to a brick wall. We both laid up till midnight just upset or frustrated and today I feel different. I feel really uneasy and if he texts me I get so nervous to open it. I feel like I’m giving everything I can in every aspect of my life: family, work, exercise, everything but I’m not getting anything, I feel like I’m under water and I can’t breath anymore.