Husband does not care about sex or physical intamacy.

I have been with my husband for 3 years and we have a two year old together. We are actually in the best place we have ever been in our relationship.He is 32 and I am 24.

We both work 40 hour a week jobs and he text and calls me during work hours. He always comes home on time and I could pick his phone up right now without him saying anything.

So now that you know some backstory.

We are not very physically affectionate when it comes to kissing or hugging or cuddling. We kiss once a day before he goes to work and that is about it.

It’s been really bothering me though and I have told him that I need more physical intimacy and sex.

We have sex maybe 2-4 time a month.Which he hardly ever initiates and when he does it’s usually after I asked him to have sex with me.

I don’t feel it is okay for me to have to ask to have sex with my husband.

He just says he is very worn out from work which I understand to an point.

Idk I could complain and talking about it to him till I’m blue in the face but this has been a thing for the whole 3 years.

Any advice on what I should do or say or even ask to try to get a good middle ground with him?