Is he cheating ?

My bf ran into his ex fiancés mom at the store come to find out she recently moved a few blocks from us . They exchanged numbers .

He comes home and tells me he ran into her exchanged numbers but didn’t plan on using it . 2 days later (yesterday ) she calls him when I’m at work they talked 43 min . When I get home he tells me she called they caught up and she invited him over at 4am when she’s getting ready for work to pick up a plate and that his ex wouldn’t be coming into town untill Christmas eve afternoon.

He was out lastnight with the boys didn’t come home till 6 am. (We have a rule if you too drunk crash at the nearest safest spot ) but apparently he wasn’t too drunk cuz I’m at work and my sister txt me saying her bf (one of my bfs friends) dropped my bf off at “some house” at like 3am. All the other guys were dropped off before 3am. So I called him on my lunch break just now and asked how he got home and he said “the guys” and that we can talk more when i get home ...

Somebody lying .

What should I do ?

I’d be naive to think it wasn’t his ex mama house he got dropped off at but He’s been so open and honest about the girl mom I’m thinking maybe he went there and doesn’t know how to tell me??

Biggest issue is 3-6am is a big gap to be picking up a plate . I know he not hooking up with the mom maybe his ex came into town early ? Maybe it’s another woman all together . How did he get home ?

I’m trying to focus at work but it’s hard . Somebody plz help .

Replies :

-briabella : the ex’s mom moved nearby .otp she told him her daughter (his ex) was coming into town for the holiday..they were together 8 yrs . She would’ve had his baby but she had a miscarriage. They lived together for half a year untill he cheated on her because he wanted to explore his options. He didn’t have a hoe phase because they were high school sweethearts and after he “got fine” the ladies wanted him and he couldn’t be faithful .

Moon fish lion flower-

That was over 5 years ago 🥴 he could’ve changed and yesI do believe every person should have a phase to see what they want before settling down . & btw he got her pregnant at 18 they broke up at 23. He was faithful up until their last year together. He’s going to be 30 next year . We’ve been together 2 years .

Reply 2- Girl boo nobody was calling you out . I took the time to reply to your comment . That’s all how can I possible keep making myself look silly. when It’s clearly the first time it’s happened to me . U asked questions love and I answered. If u don’t think it matters u should’ve never asked. My statement covers myself as well . When I was 18 I wasn’t trying to settle down I was trying to party i knew relationships were temporary so for him to tell me he was young I UNDERSTOOD. And maybe that’s what u should try to do before u think somebody defending someone. Cuz that excuse can’t work now he’s almost 30 .

As for everyone else- we called the number it was her mom. He acted as if he was too drunk to remember so the answer wasn’t like she was covering for him. He went there to get a plate but when he walked out 5 min later his ride was gone so her mom let him stay and sober up then he fell asleep then she dropped him off and ended up late to work . His ex wasn’t there .