Is he ashamed of me

I’ve been with the same guy about 3 years go engaged last year had a baby July this year and he never wants to go to any of my family things since we have been together he will just refuse my family always invite him and he never show so ppl will be there with they spouse and I’m all alone now we have a baby and he still the same way I went to dads tonight to open gifts at his house that he got the baby and he refused to go like dude it’s your child first Christmas why are you being this way my dad even had a Covid test done on the 22nd then quarantine I’m starting to think he ashamed of me I never get invited to things when has family had stuff before Covid his family never ask to see the baby or ask how she doing or anything not that that’s a big deal but I think I’m realizing he ashamed of me or something I asked and he says will that’s your family and this my family like wtf idk but I’m tired him never wanting to do things as a family it’s bullshit and even before the virus he never did anything with me with his friends or anything I think it’s time to let this relationship go. Also his family didn’t even drive by the baby shower they said they was putting together a pool instead