Hey there!

So to start off, I'm N and I'm 23. To cut the story short, I just want an advice on how to be mature. On how to be consistent on it, on how to know the right words to say (especially to younger people asking for advice) I usually tend to stoop down their level and be really empathic in a way that they don't hear what is needed to be said but instead they hear what they've been wanting to hear.

I've struggled with this since forever. I feel like a book would help, an experience would help. My boyfriend has been a big help on reminding me to keep on improving and it doesnt stop here or there.

I'm not that fluent in English but sometimes I just want to sound smart, speak eloquently, and have sense.

Any advice? I'd really appreciate it.

Happy New Years, btw 🎉🙏🏻