Tired

What do you call it when a person just repeats back to you what you've said to them, instead of offering anything new to the conversation, in a patronizing manner? Or switches stuff up so much, that you don't even know anymore, doubting your own mind? Or dismissing something you've said? Told my husband on the 28th that I was tired/done and that he needed to leave. It's the first day of the new year and he's still in the house. I don't want another year of this. This wasn't just pandemic stress. I'm tired. If this is just life, then I don’t want it.