BLW babies

I know the whole point of BLW is to let baby feed themselves, but do some of you feed the baby? My LO very rarely brings food to her own mouth but she’ll gladly open wide if I’m holding the food for her. I always offer her a plate to explore but it ends up on the floor so I resort to hand feeding her, any others? We always encourage her to feed herself by eating with her but she just plays with it. Tonight we had spaghetti and meatballs and I had to feed it to her. I’ve joined all the BLW groups so I know it’s a big no-no to hand feed but what else can I do?