Blowjob help... what happened???

Question

So I’ve gotten better and better at blowjobs everytime, my boyfriend even says so. But tonight, I have him what he called the best yet... but he couldn’t stay hard... like as soon as I turned around to clean my hands and face off he has just like floppy... now I am not a girl that needs sex or expects it after I please him but that’s never happened and idk it makes me... sad I guess.. I don’t really know... what happened?

Accepted Answer

Guys usually can't keep going once they orgasm. You said he told you it was the best ever, it's going to be difficult to stay hard after that.

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Guys have off days. Guys have days where they just aren't as horny, and sex is a mental thing too. I'm sure you've had days too where your partner was doing everything right, but your mind just wasn't as into it and your body wasn't as responsive as a result. 
He was being truthful when he said what you were doing was, physically speaking, great. It's nothing to do with you. Take his word for it.

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My husband has had those days at times. He will be completely in the mood and his body just isn’t cooperating. It’s normal as long as it isn’t an every time thing.

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if youre gonna give him head and expect sex to come with it, dont do it until he comes. just do it as foreplay to get him hard & a bit wet and then go for the sex, and then finish it off with head if you please

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Happens to my bf all the time, and its conpletely normal. Its not like he doesnt wanna have sex, its just his body being tired from the orgasm or something. 
What we do if we both want to keep going and have sex after, is he will just get a drink of water to rehydrate and then start working on me to get me ready. Then after a while he'll be good to go again. Helps to make him last longer too!

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Maybe he had other stuff on his mind, I know distraction can cause that

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my boyfriend is the same way. if he’s drank energy drinks that day or smoked weed before, he can’t stay hard. it’s not your fault babe! sometimes guys have off days, sometimes staying hard is a struggle. i highly recommend sex pills !! they’re amazing 😻

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Guys don’t stay hard usually after cumming, I make my man edge and then stop before he does and start having sex. Unless I want to just please him only then I’ll make him cum, and 10 mins of rest and he’s back up :) it’s normal

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My husband did this recently when we were trying to have sex... and he was embarrassed that he just got soft despite being horny still. Sometimes it just happens 🤷🏻‍♀️ I felt bad too that maybe I wasn’t doing something right or I wasn’t sexy enough but he assured me that wasn’t the case. We had a great time cuddling/kissing but for some reason he couldn’t get hard again. So we ended up just laying there naked and chatting. Sometimes the body says no even when the mind says yes.

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I think it’s fine. I was doing kind of a long hand and blow job with my ex in his car and he would go floppy if he thought someone was going to catch us that was nearby. He gets hard again fast. Incidentally he lasts super long and can basically not cum from fellatio

Blowjob help... what happened???

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