A sexless marriage

My husband and I have a great relationship! We are best friends, we love each other and support each other. We have a beautiful life together. We have one child who is fantastic. We live on a acreage and are fulfilling our dreams together....

but we don’t have sex.

It’s frustrating at time. Because our marriage is so great, but I can tell he is no longer physically attracted to me. Don’t get me wrong, he loves me! He really does... but he is no longer interested in sex.

When I found out I was pregnant we only got pregnant because he was drunk when we had sex. That was the last time we had sex for a year and a half. That’s right! No sex for a year and a half.

I have tried sexy lingerie and he is sooooo uninterested it’s absolutely embarrassing. A month ago I put on some sexy underwear and threw a silk robe over it. He was in the living room and I showed him what I was wearing and he said I looked sexy and told me to sleep in it 😑

So, no sex.

He has spoke to his doctor about his low libido. They did some tests (checking his cardiovascular system and his hormones) everything came back normal.

Ugh it’s tough.

I don’t masterbate, I have never been able to get myself off with masterbation. I have tried a million different toys and techniques and nothing but sex has gotten me off.

So I stew. I sit here in my hormonal rages and stew. ☹️

I would NEVER leave him over something like this. I love him dearly and we have such a beautiful life... I just wish we had sex more than once every 6 months