Would you feel insecure if your s/o got a pocket pussy?

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Ok so I brought up the subject of getting a vibrator to my boyfriend for when he’s not around and he said he would get a pocket pussy then but it’s like I would feel super insecure if he did. I would feel like I would feel loose to him after. it’s not like I would be getting some giant dildo to put in me so its different I don’t know what do you guys think?

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It's not different and it's double standard. If you can get a sex toy so can he . If your vagina is "loose" , did you know the vaginal area can  expand when the woman is well lubricated. 😉 I wouldn't worry about being compared to a sex toy . That's like him saying he will feel little if you get a dido that's long than his penis.  No need to feel insecure babe , it's a toy and you're the real deal 😁

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So, you can get a toy but he can’t? Oooookay.

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Neither partner should be jealous of masturbation; with or without sex toys. Neither one of you should have an issue with this. You have no right, nor does he, to tell your partner how, when and with what to masturbate. 
The idea of “feeling loose” is moot. Your vagina is a muscle and doesn’t “become or feel loose” because it isn’t a thing. When your aroused and lubricated your muscles relax to accommodate penetration- exactly the way it’s meant. We need to stop perpetuating the idea of not being or feeling “tight” enough! Stop!

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No because at least he isn't getting actual pussy from someone else ..

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And he is probably thinking the exact same think about you getting a vibrator.......
Why do you think he said he’d get one

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I've made my ex get one once, for I didn't always have to have sex with him.  I still mostly did but at times I didn't want to. Heck for the fun of I even use it on him.  😅 was kinda awkward but meh. He ended up getting a other one one day. Think it was a pocket ass one. 
My boyfriend wants to get toys to use on me. 🤷‍♀️ Even suggested I send him videos of me using them when he is gone for work. He seems to like the idea of watching videos of me vs porn. 
I have zero problems with toys. I rather he use a toy if needed if I'm not around, or watch porn.

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Meant no

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It’s the double standard for me 🙄 If you can get a dildo or vibrator he can get a pocket pussy. Even if you don’t get one he can. How he pleasures himself when you’re not around is not your business.

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Masturbation and sex are two very different things. There's a lot to unpack here tbh but to make it short: no. Idk what those 35% who said yes think. Theyre literally just wrong lmao. As a matter of fact, this might be a sign your boyfriend has a healthy perspective on sex, relationships and masturbation.

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Use it on him 🤷🏾‍♀️ lol

Would you feel insecure if your s/o got a pocket pussy?

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