I don’t know, part of me worries I was in the wrong a little for this but i also don’t feel like I was.

So we rented with this other male, I’m unemployed so I ended up cleaning the house up daily etc, the dude always cooked, using all the dishes, but never cleaned up after himself.

I fell pregnant. And the first week I found out I was hit really badly with fatigue etc, so I didn’t clean much that week as I was sleeping a lot, my partner ended up getting a message stating since I was home the most I should make sure the house was spotless.

I ended up going to my parents daily because I became super anxious being at home & honestly nervous he’d yell at me for not cleaning up after him, - me and my partner honestly ended up ubering every night.

We rented two rooms so we exclusively stayed in those rooms. The dude also cooked with fish nightly, one time I did feel well enough to clean up after him there was fish scales on the bench. 🤢 We had to always take out the rubbish & pay for the tags for the bins.

We recently moved out and he posted on his flatmate wanted saying that we weren’t tidy????

I’m mad about the whole situation, but I need to know that not cleaning up after him I’m not a bad person because I still feel some anxiety about it

There’s more to this but the tidying up thing really got to me for some reason.