I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month or so now and I enjoy talking to him. We met up now that restrictions in my area have loosened and we ended up kissing the second time we hung out and I enjoyed it. I definitely enjoy his company and think we would be great friends but idk if I have feelings for him but I feel like I should. I know lots of girls that have had huge crushes on him and stuff. Lots of girls think he’s attractive and he is also the nicest guy ever but also like not too nice yenno?? Well anyway I can tell he really likes me but idk if I should start to distance myself from him or try to go on a few more dates to make sure I’m sure about how I feel? Feels weird to me that a bunch of girls wanted him and I didn’t even want him, started talking as friends over something dumb and now here we are

Any advice? The last guy I talked to I was super attracted to him off the bat and got along with him too but i ended it for different reasons. With this guy I don’t feel that same spark of attraction but maybe that initial spark is overrated??

I’m so bad at understanding my feelings. This guy I’m talking to right now literally checks 99% of the “boxes” I have. The only thing turning me off is he’s not as athletic as me - he doesn’t hike, snowboard, camp etc. He is athletic but in different ways. Idk I would want a partner I can enjoy all that with and I know he’s willing to try it all but I kinda wish he already did that stuff...