who wears the pants?

so bf and I both agreed that he wears the pants more so in the relationship. he’s usually the one to make the plans, end dates/phone calls/plans, suggest things.... and i’ll go along with it. sometimes I make suggestions but they aren’t very good. sometimes I feel like I don’t really have a personality and there’s nothing I can bring to the table. he games, and shows me the games he likes, I wish I had some hobby I enjoyed that I could bring to the table. I want to make some calls too, but i’m afraid i’m a little too passive. does anyone have some advice??