Would you be upset ?

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My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and over time i've gained some weight. I just had a miscarriage I was 4 months pregnant I went from 160 to 190. How that I've gained weight I noticed my boyfriend don't come on to me as much, we barely have sex. I mentioned this to him and he just said that's not true when it is.. We have sex maybe twice while i'm not on my AF. 
Today we were going to get food & I wanted an ice cream with my food and he said to me I don't need to be eating anything sweet that's how I get fat. Idk but it just hurt my feelings idk if i'm just bring sensitive or what. He still bought me food I just didn't eat it. I don't even want to eat anymore. I feel so bad about myself

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You were pregnant, most women gain weight during pregnancy. You also have been through the trauma of a miscarriage. You can’t just lose the weight overnight. Hows about you lose his weight by dumping his insensitive ass.

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Yeah what he said is fatphobic & encourages eating disorders. That's really messed up of him, I'm sorry you aren't feeling good about your body right now.

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That comment would have killed me.  I’m more sensitive about my weight and my husband knows this and he knows I’m working on it.  That being said in our 12 years together he has never once said anything about my weight.  In that time at one point I gained about 60 pounds due to my thyroid.

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I would be pissed! He has no right to comment on your body. It’s normal to gain weight after pregnancy and miscarriages, hormones will be flying all over the place. I would have got up and left him there. He’s a shallow small minded man.

Would you be upset ?

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