Was I just overthinking/ over reacting?

So me and my boyfriend were talking tonight like we always do before bed and I don't remember how it started, but he was telling me in order of who and what was most important in his life 1st he said his family 2nd playing soccer because it was his life and he grew up playing it and 3rd was me... so I just began to cry because that really hurt me. I just felt so sad because all this time we've been growing as a couple, we made a huge decision and opened a joint account and next year buying our home to start a family together and plus he gave me a promise ring. I thought making those decisions together we were ONE and I was the most important in his life. I'm like isn't it supposed to be like that ...it's like if we were married I'm already staying with him mostly everyday eventhough we haven't moved in together officially. I don't know what to think now.