overreacting? or selfish

me and my husband have a good bond but when it comes to my moms is above and beyond..everywhere we go he wants her to come with us..we barely spend time together cus of work and when we do spend time like go out to eat or whatever he always wanna take her like tfs..we going out of town dis weekend for his lil cus bday party he told her to come with us..like why? me and my mom dont have a relationship like dat..but we do spend alot of time with her cus my husband always like to go over there to cook and eat then on the weekends he wanna chill with her do cookouts all the damn time am like WATA😡😂im i wrong?