You go pick up your kids from your ex. He’s wearing a wedding ring. Do you ask if he got married ?

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Things haven’t been good between us and I hate his gf.  Always have; always will.

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If she’s got an official title as my kids’ stepmom, I need to know that going forward

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I'd say "oh, are congratulations in order?"

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I wouldn't. I dont care. If he didnt tell me then why ask

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No, he might just be wearing it to see your reactions on or something. I'd like to think if he got married he'd have let you know, or that your kids would have.

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Why not? I don’t think that’s an intrusive question.

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Does being married change anything? The girlfriend was in the child’s life before they “may have” gotten married, so it’s not like it’s that big of a difference.. I wouldn’t ask.. I would just leave it..

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If you don’t have a good relationship with his girlfriend possibly now wife.... why ask? Nothing is changing for you to know that piece of information. The child is clearly around the girlfriend so her becoming his wife and has no different effect except for you wanting to know....... 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Nope. Not my life , not my business.

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Why would you ask if he is married? If you aren’t together anymore that is none of your business. You should only be having conversations about your children. When you get married are you going to let him know? Obviously you know he has a gf and you said you don’t like her. Never have and never will. So looks to me like your just putting your nose where it doesn’t and possibly trying to stir something up. I know it’s sucks and it’s frustrating but unfortunately he is going to continue living his life. Even if it isn’t up to your standards or liking. Do you think him being married is gonna come between him and his daddy duties?

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Since it seems to be a problem area and since it’s not going to change anything, I would just leave it alone. You already hate her so it’s not a matter of getting to know the person your kids are going to be around. Sounds like you already know her and don’t like her. It’s probably also way he didn’t tell you he got married.  My DH didn’t tell his kids mother, because she hates me and when he told her we were engaged, she withheld his kids for five months. She can’t do that now but I’m just saying it as an example.

You go pick up your kids from your ex. He’s wearing a wedding ring. Do you ask if he got married ?

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