Does this make me a toxica?

I’m really hoping no, but I need your honest opinion. This may be a long post so pls bear with me.

So back in 2018, when I got pregnant with my first, I went through a social media cleanse bc I only wanted the people closest to me to share my journey in motherhood. I went from having about 700+ followers to a little over 100. Then a few days before giving birth, my husband also decided to do a cleanse bc he also wanted the closest people to him to share his fatherhood journey.

Okay, so it’s been like that now & we have 2 boys. We have agreed that we wouldn’t add people who don’t know us personally. So I would get random guys trying to follow me but I also reject them. Last night, I found out my husband started following this girl who I have no idea who she is. I asked him & he said he doesn’t know her either & said “I guess cause I liked a picture of her car in a car page, she decided to follow me.” So I was like, “so you’re okay for a random girl who we don’t know to see pictures of ours boys? What if I decided to add those random ass guys?” So he was like, you’re right. Should I remove her? & I told him to do what he wants cause I’m not trying to tell him what to do since he’s a grown man. But honestly, I do want him to remove her cause I really do not like people seeing my kids who I don’t know.

Also, he does have girl friends on social media (girls who he’s been friends with before me & girls who he’s befriended personally so don’t come at me with being jealous lol)