Please help. Does it sound like he’s done? 💔

I’m currently 19, 36 weeks pregnant, and have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 3 years. He also has PTSD and bipolar that he has gone unmedicated for because he can’t reach his therapist. We’ve been butting heads every now and then lately bc we’ve been trying to move in together but he works a lot so it’s hard. So for now, we both live at home. To add to the stress, we just got news that my doctors are predicting baby’s birth in 2 weeks, baby suddenly is very tiny, and we got put in the middle of my parents’ toxic relationship issues. Usually, aside from our moments, my boyfriend is one of the most selfless, loyal, and supportive people. Any other time we fought we always made up soon after and he’s never ignored me. I’ve always felt guilty for him having to deal with my parents bc my dad has put him through a lot and he still stuck around.

This weekend, we were staying at my parents’ and we got into an argument over moving. I feel like it only turned into one because we are both so stressed out and weren’t really listening to each other. He left at 2 in the morning and didn’t tell me until after. He said “I don’t wanna fight. I’ll just go. I’m sorry”, told me that maybe space would be best, turned off his location and read receipts, and hasn’t talked to me. His phone has been on “Do not disturb” (I’ve tried calling and texting). This morning it came up in my “suggested” on Instagram that he made a new account. But it was really weird bc it was basically empty. It had one picture of him and was only following one person - a girl he dated for a week 5 years ago. I texted him and sent him a screenshot and asked what was going on and he deleted her. I commented “mine” on the picture to see what he’d do and he left it. I’m not blocked on anything either. It just feels very weird.

He does go distant sometimes when he’s stressed out (will shut his phone off when we fight) but its never been this bad. He just got done telling me how I’m stuck with him, how beautiful he thinks I am, how he thinks I’ll be the best mom, etc. I don’t want to lose him. 💔