What do you like about being a mother? What are things you wanted to accomplish before becoming a mother

I regret not having my life together before having a child but I love being a mother.

I regret not traveling and volunteering to think for all these years I could of been volunteering or apprenticeship. I regret not searching myself more traveling getting fit and saving up a ton of money for my future. I regret not finding the college I like and wanted and fought to get in. That's pretty much it. But as a mother I can still graduate college, still work save money, and still travel it will just be harder.

Some days I think how am I going to manage this.

The thing I think most people miss is socializing going to see family, friends going places but now with a child you watch them like a hawk and you can't really stay too long and you can't do crazy things like go to a concert or zip lining or hiking or take classes for something fun like yoga, martial arts, gym, dancing. Etc.

It's your time is your child's time and your houses like you cook and clean the house it seems like everyday.

I want to go to an airshow or to travel I can do these things but it takes planning and responsibility.

Being a mother is special, I have no idea how mother's raised fifteen children back in time.

The important thing is self care doing one thing a day that makes you happy and finding yourself.