Body insecurity

I had my 9 pound daughter almost 4 years ago via c section and put on about 60 pounds. I definitely didn’t lose all of that baby weight and my stomach is all sorts of stretched and looking like a busted can of biscuits. I’m now 13 weeks pregnant again with my son and my clothes are beginning not to fit and seeing my body is just making me incredibly sad. Is there anything that can help me look more like I have a bump rather than just fat, droopy skin? What are somethings I can to to gain confidence in this pregnancy?