Frustrated

Sex.....now my husband and I have been together for 11 years. Married for 6. Have three kids together (4,3 and 18 month old). Let me tell you he is my absolute best friend. We would love just one more child but my periods have been irregular. So I started tracking because i was getting my period two times a month for a couple

Months. Weird. But my husband seems to have a hard time staying hard while having sex the past couple months. He just went to the doctor yesterday found out his blood pressure is a little highs maybe that could be it? But dang. I would never make him feel bad about it but it is truly frustrating. Want some more good rough sex. Hah thanks for letting rant.