He locked me out of my own house

I broke up with him because of the major lack of respect he has for me.

I made the post the other night talking about how he left one night without saying a single word and went out to the bar, posted it all over snap chat with a girl, actually got her snap chat which I found out later, and he didn’t come back until the NEXT night. I didn’t know about the girl until later on, and almost broke up with him that night but he threw himself down in the floor and freaked the fuck out and made me feel horrid for packing his stuff and told me I “broke” him.

He is abusive. If he does something that’s hurtful, I sit down and say “hey this behavior is hurting my feelings. I don’t like the way I’m being treated.” He brings up that night out at the bar and says “I don’t like the way you treat ME you kicked me out!” (Lol why he still here then cause I’d like to know)

He literally will treat me like crap for no reason. If he had a bad day at work, he will sigh if I walk into the living room, ask me “what the fuck do you want.” If I merely sit on the couch next to him. And that’s one of those behaviors that I told him was hurtful and he spun it around on me. Another huge thing is him just leaving randomly in the middle of the night and not answering the phone and not coming back for hours and refusing to tell me where he went or why.

Yeah no. I’m tired. So I dumped his ass. I can’t just kick him out to be fucking homeless like I can’t even legally do that. However I can show him a little bit of what it feels like to be treated like nothing.

I went from crying to him to acting like I don’t care. (I don’t care actually because when I do I sit and think about how badly he’s treated me and it makes me wanna leave so bad I am so done)

To not acknowledging his existence when he’s here. I think a big thing for him is power trips, he would get a power trip from taking off at 2am with no explanation, and have me calling him wondering where he went. He got off on me being upset over him so I just stopped being upset. And I took off tonight at 2am. I just went to the gas station and ate a large meal in the parking lot and somehow I made that trip last 2 hours.

This man LOCKED ME OUT OF MY OWN HOUSE. I moved this man into MY HOUSE. He got MAD when he got back from disappearing and I was gone, no longer sitting here being a dumb bitch over him. So he took my spare key I hide outside and locked me out of my house and then he acted like he couldn’t hear me.

Yeah no, I crawled in through my bathroom window.

This actually pissed me off so bad that I had to stop myself and control that shit because I crawled into my house through my bathroom and walked into the living room and stood over the couch where I make his ass sleep now and then I steeled myself because this man is not worth it. I freaked him THE FUCK OUT, he had his eyes closed and opened them and jumped up so far he almost headbutted me and he jumped to turn the lights on and looked

At me.

I was still mad as fuck just looking at him and then I said nothing and went to my bedroom. He didn’t say Shit to me about being gone because he literally couldn’t, like you gonna be mad at me for doing the same exact thing that I broke up with you for where the entire time you swore I was a crazy controlling bitch? I’m not his girl anyways. What I do isn’t his business.

I am going to have an extra key made and continue to be that ITCH in his ass until he gets the hell out of my house. Lock me the fuck out of my house I swear to god what the hell. I’m so done with men.

And to point out again why I won’t just leave. This is literally my house. All of my stuff is here, all of it and I have no place to put it all I have nowhere to go. But he’s going to be out in 30days or else I’ll have the police involved.

He says he has to save for a down payment to go anywhere. I legally can’t just kick him out in the street anytime I want I have to give him an eviction notice which I’m so serious about it had it notarized. I served this man a notarized eviction notice.

I’m not gonna feel like this anymore, I’m not gonna be dumbed down to staying with him. I’m going to ignore him as much as I can for the next 30 days and then I’ll be able to breathe again