I left a cheater

This is a sign to leave him/her if they are cheating.

I was in a relationship with a sociopath. He cheated, stole money from me, scammed people, obsessively lied, was mentally, emotionally, and sometimes physically abusive. He forced unprotected sex knowing he wasn’t sexually healthy. Made me feel alone. Made me develop daily panic attacks. He recently tried to LITERALLY kill his new girlfriend. I used to think he was as good as it was going to get for me. Because he said he loved me and would do anything for me.

I have officially been in a happy healthy relationship with a new man for 7 months now. I don’t know if he is the one. I just know he treats me like a human being. He takes care of me. He listens to me. He nurtures my feelings and emotions. He gives me space when I need it. He makes sure I am comfortable in any situation. He sees my worth and appreciates it. I don’t know if he is the one but I KNOW he is worth my time and affection. We value each other. I hope he is.

PLEASE. if you have any doubts about the person you are with. If they make you feel like you aren’t enough. If they do mot value your time, body, presence. LEAVE. Red flags do not lie. And they will not go away no matter how many promises are made. I know it’s hard. I know it feels impossible. It’s going to be difficult, but it will be worth it. Please, leave. Learn to be alone and heal. Love yourself again. I promise you better things will come. Maybe not in a new relationship but your life outside of that toxicity will be better. You are worth everything.