My Bubba

So I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 35. He is my ex friend's older brother. My ex friend and I go all the way back to the last year of primary school. Nothing bad happened to us, we just one day stopped talking to each other. Anywhoooo......

So my now boyfriend and I met very briefly during quarentining where I volunteered to help out at work and unknowingly he was also volunteering at my work. See.....I only helped package the drugs at pharmacy and he and his coworker would transport them to their owners when finished. First time I heard him talk was when he asked me for a pen.

Days later, I went to his work to fill out some tax returns and he said hi but I didn't hear him. Upon adding me on fb he was able to observe my account and we talked for a bit there. He said that he'd be a gentleman and he politely asked for my number to which I said no. And I guess that turned him on cause no one did that to him before. He invited me out to his uncle's restaurant to which his role is the waiter. This restaurant has a pool area and an apartment to which he lives at the bottom floor with his grandma. I told him I had a gig and he came and watched my band play. He then told his uncle about the band playing for the restaurant at every month end.

Long story short, the band now practices there for gigs whenever and also plays there every month end volunteerily but we get good exposure. This guy is in love with me and I love him too. He sometimes go to his sis, my ex friend, for relationship advice. But the thing for me now is not that it doesn't really mean a thing but we haven had sex in about a month. He doesn't like when I ask for it and he rather I turn him on. I don't really know how. Also, he likes when I sleepover by him. I suggested that we should have a beacation and he agreed. He brought up wanting me to met his mom. His uncle is a big time singer. His uncle thinks I'm weird...lol another story post.

My boyfriend, he tries but at times he doesn't live up to his word. He'd say stuff and not follow through...saying he's tired mostly. One time when we argued I asked him if there was anyone else instead of me and he said my eyes are for you lady. And I believe him. But he sees his uncle likes me and he does like when we argue outside cause there are cameras. I feel like this may last. I just don't like when his words don't meet his actions but he said he's working on that. For example I gave him plane ticket money for me to travel with him and we argued and I said I didn't bother want to travel with him anymore and keeps saying tomorrow he'll give me back. I never got it still. I told him tho that I'd wait till month end to make up my mind about travelling. Also, I offer him money cause he seemingly lost his bank card and put on a good acting show I guess cause idk if he was being truthful and I had to say I need the money to do shopping days after he'd say he'd give me tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow. Today, he asked me for money cause his brother was out and owed him $100 and he asked me for $70 to which I gave him after he came all the way to my house and said that I didn't have to give him if im using the money later on. Please him me recognize what kind of man this is....