I'm so scared

My heart and soul says color and race doesn't matter but to a couple of my family members like my aunt and my uncle on my mom's mom side says it does I'm scared to dated somebody outside my race cause them and if I take a man out side my race it's going to raise a big red flag what should I do if I want to date someone outside my race even though a couple of my mom's mom family members are racist like my aunt and uncle I'm scared that they might disowned me as they niece