Anyone worried their baby won’t love them ?? 😢

Question

I’m a FTM and I have this fear that if I’m not the one holding my baby or caring for him at all times he won’t love me. It’s caused some problems in my family because I freak out when anyone holds him besides my husband. Even when I’m exhausted and our parents offer help I refuse because I’m scared my baby will think I don’t care about him. I just really want him to love and be attached to me and I’m scared if anyone else does my job he will love them over me. Do you guys feel this way?

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You will never be replaced. He will never love someone as much as he loves his mum. Is important to let him interact with other people though, or he have seperation anxiety if you and your husband are his WHOLE world. You're doing a great job mum. He looks happy and healthy.

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I had this worry a little  when I went back to work and my mom was watching my son. My son loves me a lot more than grandma.

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Yes. I was diagnosed with postpartum depression and anxiety tho, so maybe bring it up with a doctor!

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Thanks ladies I really appreciate the response 😢💕💕💕

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You get a pass because it’s your first you his mama he’s obligated to love you lol

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Yes my second child i felt didn't love me...he was a baby who didn't want to be rocked but to just simply fall asleep on his own in his crib...I felt cheated out on bonding...and didn't help he smiled at his father first lol...he's 3 now and he loves me gives me random hugs and kisses...think its just our hormones at the time....you'll be ok your baby does love you.

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No I’ve never felt that way. Your baby loves you endlessly as you love him. But you should be able to accept help. Speak to your doctor as that’s an unhealthy thought pattern xx

Anyone worried their baby won’t love them ?? 😢

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