So we are driving with our two kids (2 & 4 year old girls) to go get food. There was a guy who honestly was driving like a jerk and him and my fiancé passed each other after incident and my fiancé flipped him off and said “stupid f’ing n*gger). I was LIVID. I told him do not ever talk like that in front of the kids and me again. And now HE is mad at me for “defending” the guy. No, the guy was being a jerk but I expected my fiancé to be grown enough to let it go and not call him something so hateful. The world has enough hate. This also isn’t the first time….

He has a temper problem and today just really made me feel like this is not the kind of man I want around me or my children. Also no he will never do therapy or counseling because he doesn’t think he has an issue.

I love him… but I don’t wanna be with someone who acts that way. What should I do?