Nurses.. what shift do you prefer??

What shifts do you prefer?

Days/nights?

M-F 8-5 or 3 12’s?

Do you have kids.. if so what’s easier for you?

I have been a nurse for only about 2 months. I work home health which is a M-F 8-5. If I’m being honest... I loved it at first but am now hating it. I’ve always dreamt of either doing l&d/postpartum or OR, not home health. I hate only having 2 days off. I get overwhelmed because I have many dr appts all the time and feel like I have no time for them. I also hate having to use one of my two days off to catch up from the week (laundry, cleaning, errands). I also have 2 kids and feel like I don’t get enough time with them. I want to leave but I’m so new that I feel like I need to give it time. Plus, what if I leave for 3 12’s and HATE IT. Ugh I’m so scared.

Plus a little side note.. I can feel the intense judgment from my husband when I talk about the possibility of leaving.. help.