I feel so used 😔

I just need to get something off my chest. I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month and right after we had sex he ghosted me. I saw him again this weekend and we hooked up again but this time he introduced me to his friends as “his girl” he was all over me and super clingy all night. We hooked up and he ghosted me again. I’m super disappointed and upset. Not heartbroken but I’m just upset cause if he wanted to hookup with me at the beginning he coulda told me. You know? And I guess I’m in a bad place emotionally speaking because I get hit on all the time everywhere. With or without makeup and idk I feel like people only see me as this pretty thing. You know? Not as an actual being. It’s like people just want to possess me and say they’ve been with me to flex on other people. And idk I just feel so used. I feel empty and drained. I think I’m going to stop dating for a while but like damn I’m just tired of it all. Can anyone relate? If so lmk what you’re thinking so that I know I’m not alone 🥺