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Please read thoroughly. Any words of encouragement and any advice very appreciated.

My fiancé and I have been together for a little over 6 years. Living together for 5. I’ve quit two long term jobs, at his request, since we’ve been together because working full time didn’t fit into our lifestyle because with his profession, it was easier and cheaper to live in our 5th wheel, since he moved around a lot due to different job projects. I couldn’t keep a job if we moved to a different state, and sometimes he didn’t want me working.

Anyway, we built our place end of Summer 2019. I started working full time shortly after, then Covid happened and my place of employment completely shut down. Anyway, shortly after, we had some serious issues with my ex husband regarding our daughter. Long story short, my ex husband is now incarcerated, and we have a protective order against him. We have been led to believe he will be released soon. He is not mentally stable and has threatened my daughter and I multiple times and it scares the shit out of me. He’s told me that he wants to kill me. I have been going through some issues of my own due to the severity of our situation..both my daughter and I are in therapy.

Anyway, basically, my fiancé is telling me he doesn’t want to marry me now because I haven’t been working and financially contributing. He has always been good with his money and has made a good life for himself and for us. He makes a 6 figure salary, and is constantly ordering stuff off of Amazon Prime, ordering 4 wheeler parts, paying off 4 wheelers, our vehicles. Just bought a brand new hand gun two days ago. He’s gone from our home sometimes a few weeks at a time, and I take 100% care of everything he cannot while he’s working. That includes mowing, weed eating, keeping the house clean, washing clothes, tending to our vegetable garden, taking care of my daughter and our dog, running errands for him, and many other things and temporarily that isn’t good enough. He is taking care of us financially but doesn’t seem to care or notice home much I am taking care of him in many other ways. I understand a lot has changed for him too the past year but he’s Things happened that were beyond our control and I am just confused and I feel alone right now..

I wanted to add again that my not working is temporary. He has never been the sole financial provider ever, and I have money in savings that we plan to use in case of emergencies, as well as a 401k. I’m not and never will I ever allow him to be a sole provider when it comes to finances.