We don’t have sex anymore.

Actual, real, penis in vagina sex is basically non-existent in our lives ever since having our son 4 years ago. My partner is happy with a hand job and that’s it. It’s SO fucking boring. I tell him this time and time again. We have sex maybe ONCE a month, if that, and use hands 2-3 times a week. I don’t know what to do anymore. Sometimes we start intercourse then he goes soft and wants me to finish with hands anyway. We used to have sex multiple times a day before having our son.

He says there’s nothing wrong with me and that I’m not any less attractive, so what the hell is the problem? He’s mid 20’s, I’m almost 30. Any advice? This sounds so desperate but goddamn, I need dick inside me 😩

EDIT: I had an emergency c-section. No damage done down there.