Feeling neglected and depressed

pregnancy with our second baby with only a few weeks to go, been together 7 years and he seems completely disinterested. Hasn’t bought anything for the baby, helped with the nursery, showing interest in the name, asked how I’m feeling. I have been feeling pretty insecure with the body changes this time around (I’ve only gained 7 lbs and I’m not overweight so I’m all belly) and have told him this and asked him to be my hype man and he just goes “you’re big. You’re pregnant 🤷‍♀️”. No extra TLC, anything he says to his friends about me is negative and he has been friendly with the girls at work (picking up their uniform for them, getting them Starbucks, etc but not crossing the line that I am aware of) which is leaving me jealous and insecure.

It’s just leaving me in a horrible depression. Almost making me wonder if I would rather deliver this baby alone and tell him when it’s done then feel like there’s a lack of support and feel insecure having him there. I’ve gotten to the point of not even bothering to talk to him about this stuff anymore. He showed way more interest and caring with our first.

Idk if this was just a vent or looking for advice. Would you still want him in the delivery room or would you do it quietly do it alone? It was a fast delivery this time and the ob says it will be faster this time so time won’t be a problem.