A little rant about exes

Last summer, i developed feelings for a guy after not being interested in forming any sort of relationship for almost two years due to a bad experience with an ex. we explained that we both liked each other, i felt the need to be open and honest about what i was looking for in a relationship. I confided in him in ways i have never before in anyone, told him about how bad my past relationship was, explaining how my ex played me by going for my best friend at the time. The guy i liked seemed very supportive and assured me he “wasn’t like the other guys.” Next thing i know, 2 months later, the guy i was so vulnerable with DID THE SAME EXACT THING. His excuse was that he wanted to make me jealous, but he already knew that what my ex did hurt me really badly. Recently, another guy i’ve been talking to, confessed that he likes me, i’m just too damn afraid to pursue it though. I’m openly sensitive when it comes to relationships because i’ve never known what a healthy one is like.