how would yall feel ?

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I found a piece of paper written by my boyfriend in OUR notebook we use together naming basically all that he doesnt like about me. and in the end he says “and to make everything worse now im forced to have a baby with you.” i dont know how to feel that this man feels forced having my baby and i dont know what i do so wrong to him. he acts so different towards me all the time it just doesnt make sense. One minute he hates me and im the worst person to walk the face of the earth and then hes telling me he loves me every second. i dont know what to believe anymore. i feel shitty.

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I would feel incredibly disrespected. It's the fact that he couldn't ask to have a talk with you and bring up the things that are bothering him. It takes two to make a baby, you aren't forcing him to do shit.
I'd take the advice of the other ladies. Leave the notebook open where he can see it and leave. Don't stay with someone who has a LIST of things he doesn't like about you and feels like he's being forced into fatherhood. I'm sorry you had to see that crap, that's not fair to you at all. Sending love and good vibes 💚💚💚

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Don’t stay with someone who would write that. Photocopy that note and leave the original open. Take your stuff and go. You deserve better.

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I would leave him and not force him to do shit.. 🤮 He's nasty

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I’d be fuming
I’d leave the notebook open on the kitchen counter pack my bags and be gone
You deserve better don’t stick around

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He wrote that for you to read. It wasnt to have you improve otherwise he would have talked to you. His intention was to hurt and insult you. So sorry. Buy he is only a bf. You can leave.

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Write down everything he does that annoys and bothers u and write down all the things he does that he doesn't realize about himself and then at the end say and now ur forced to accept that your having a baby by a cowardly man who can't own his own actions and blames everybody else for his own shortcomings. He knew how babies are made he should have wore protection. You did not force that man to have a baby because that's not how it's done. U didn't steal his semen, unless u did but I doubt that lol

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He might be confused or having a wobble … I think you could consider and think about what you want and how you want life and your relationship to be then tell him what you feel and want And give him the opportunity to share his thoughts and feelings. 
You deserve better than reading something on a screen he should have the respect for you to have these discussions face to face! 
Sending you lots of love and happiness xxx

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My ex husband did that type of stuff to me. I stayed with him for him to only cheat and leave me after getting me pregnant twice. I now have full custody of the kids and he lives in a different state and now my current husband is helping me raise his kids. But I had to do it ALONE for months cause he just wanted to get out of it. This is possibly a sign he doesn’t truly love you based off my experience. And I for one, have so many regrets looking back. I wasted 5 years on someone who was obviously selfish and his words and actions not ever a one way street like a relationship should be. Curve balls like that are a red flag.

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No man should feel pressured to have a baby with you. They should WANT TO. I would definitely leave a man like that. If they are this toxic to you, think of how they might treat your child.

how would yall feel ?

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