Family frustrations ☹️

I’ll start by saying my sister has always been a very self centered person. I love her to death but no one can talk about themselves or she’s immediately un interested. And if you point it out she says you’re gaslighting her and being toxic.

My sister is now about 16 wks pregnant and I’m soooo excited! Everyone is! But her attitude has gotten so much worse. She acts like she’s better than me now. She literally cuts me off if I’m not talking about her and when we do talk about her she makes me feel dumb about everything I say . Like we were talking about giving birth and I said “have you seen those videos of the women that birth at home or in a pool” And she said no I don’t care about that. I just said okay that’s fine I just found it interesting and then a couple weeks later she texts me asking me if I’ve watched this video and that she’s thinking of doing this birth.?? Literally the same birth I was talking about. It’s just annoying how she shuts me down right away. I wasn’t saying anything in a “you should do this” type of way. I was just telling her what I seen. She’s never had friends before and now that she’s pregnant she says “it’s true that you lose all your friends once you’re pregnant” she never had friends. I’ve been going through a hard time and I brought it up and she said “oh well” and then started talking about her cravings and how the baby is going to be sassy when it’s born. I’m trying to be understanding because she is excited. Don’t come for me please I’m just venting. It’s a non stop thing. If we are all with family I’m not even able to talk about anything. If I do talk I’m cut off completely or made fun of.