Relationship advice


I need some mom advice that have gone through a separation and are moving on. I'll try to make this short. I was with my ex for 6 years. It was good to begin with then turned into an unhealthy one. I really had no sexual attraction to him. Held on to see if things would change,they didn't. My older kids hated him. We do have a son together. I met a guy shortly after my ex decided to move out. No intention of looking for anyone but we crossed paths and everything was just perfect, well nothing is perfect but you get it. We have been together for 4 months. We are best friends and more, like deep down I know he is the one. My issue is I'm still having trouble letting my ex go. Like part of me wants him back here yet the other part of me knows we are just not compatible. The new bf is moving in tomorrow and my anxiety is through the roof. He will have to start all over here as he lives out of state and the driving I just can't do with kids in school now. I want him here yet I'm scared. Is this a normal feeling? I don't do change very well. If any of you have gone through this please tell me these feeling are normal.